Monday, February 28, 2011

Menu Plan ~ February 28-March 4

Monday ~ Pork Tenderloin, Mashed Potatoes, Corn or Peas

Tuesday ~ Chili, Cornbread

Wednesday ~ Chicken Parmesan, pasta, salad

Thursday ~ Leftover Buffet

Friday ~ Pizza, Salad

Saturday ~ Homemade Soup, Hamburgers and Fries

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Friday, February 25, 2011

Child Internet Safety

The SITS ladies posted an article on child safety and the Internet. My children are only now starting to get interested in playing online games but are still too young to use the computer without direct supervision and assistance.

As a mom looking for a creative outlet to share about my growing family, I am now second-guessing if I in fact have used all the safety-guidelines that were shared. How do you keep your family and personal information safe? I think I'm off to Google myself and see what comes up!
Visit HERE to read the informative interview with Keith Dunn, an Internet safety expert.

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Why Having A Toddler Is Like Being At A Frat Party

You know you are going through "one of those days" when you can come up with a list like this one. Blogger Suburban Snapshots must have had one of these days as I got this from her site. As a sorority gal myself and, thus, having attended many many fraternity parties in my university days I can attest to the truth you are about to read below.

10. There are half-full, brightly-colored plastic cups on the floor in every room. Three are in the bathtub.

9. There's always that one girl, bawling her eyes out in a corner.

8. It's best not to assume that the person closest to you has any control over their digestive function.

7. You sneak off to the bathroom knowing that as soon as you sit down, someone's going to start banging on the door.

6. Probably 80% of the stains on the furniture contain DNA.

5. You've got someone in your face at 3 a.m. looking for a drink.

4. There's definitely going to be a fight.

3. You're not sure whether anything you're doing is right, you just hope it won't get you arrested.

2. There are crumpled-up underpants everywhere.

1. You wake up wondering exactly how and when the person in bed with you got there.

Check out the original post for comments with additional brilliant comparisons.

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Menu Plan Monday

Monday this week was Family Day for us here in Ontario. A few other provinces celebrate it but not all. This is why I am posting my MPM on Tuesday.

Tuesday
Chicken Scallopini, Asparagus, Vegetable Soup

Wednesday
BBQ Pork Chops, Potatoes, Peas

Thursday
Leftover Buffet

Friday
Pizza, Salad

Saturday
Hamburger, Fries

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Wednesday, February 16, 2011

God vs Science

This is an interesting perspective to make you consider what you really believe and how sound that belief is.

'Let me explain the problem science has with religion. 'The atheist professor of philosophy pauses before his class and then asks one of his new students to stand.
'You're a Christian, aren't you, son?'
'Yes sir, 'the student says.
'So you believe in God?'
'Absolutely.'
'Is God good?'
'Sure! God's good.'
'Is God all-powerful? Can God do anything?'
'Yes'
'Are you good or evil?'
'The Bible says I'm evil.'
The professor grins knowingly. 'Aha! The Bible! He considers for a moment'Here's one for you. Let's say there's a sick person over here and you can cure him. You can do it. Would you help him? Would you try?'
'Yes sir, I would.'
'So you're good...!'
'I wouldn't say that.'
'But why not say that? You'd help a sick and maimed person if you could. Most of us would if we could. But God doesn't.' The student does not answer, so the professor continues. 'He doesn't, does he? My brother was a Christian who died of cancer, even though he prayed to Jesus to heal him. How is this Jesus good? Can you answer that one?' The student remains silent. 'No, you can't, can you?' the professor says. He takes a sip of water from a glass on his desk to give the student time to relax. 'Let's start again, young fella. Is God good?'
'Er, yes,' the student says.
'Is Satan good?'
The student doesn't hesitate on this one. 'No.'
'Then where does Satan come from?'
The student falters. 'From God.'
'That's right. God made Satan, didn't he? Tell me, son. Is there evil in this world?'
'Yes, sir.'
'Evil's everywhere, isn't it? And God did make everything, correct?'
'Yes'
'So who created evil?' The professor continued, 'If God created everything, then God created evil, since evil exists, and according to the principle that our works define who we are, then God is evil.' Again, the student has no answer. 'Is there sickness? Immorality? Hatred? Ugliness? All these terrible things, do they exist in this world?'
The student squirms on his feet. 'Yes.'
'So who created them?'
The student does not answer again, so the professor repeats his question. 'Who created them?' There is still no answer. Suddenly the lecturer breaks away to pace in front of the classroom. The class is mesmerized. 'Tell me,' he continues onto another student. 'Do you believe in Jesus Christ, son?'
The student's voice betrays him and cracks. 'Yes, professor, I do.'
The old man stops pacing. 'Science says you have five senses you use to identify and observe the world around you. Have you ever seen Jesus?'
'No sir. I've never seen Him.'
'Then tell us if you've ever heard your Jesus?'
'No, sir, I have not.'
'Have you ever felt your Jesus, tasted your Jesus or smelt your Jesus? Have you ever had any sensory perception of Jesus Christ, or God for that matter?'
'No, sir, I'm afraid I haven't.'
'Yet you still believe in him?'
'Yes'
'According to the rules of empirical, testable, demonstrable protocol, science says your God doesn't exist... What do you say to that, son?'
'Nothing,' the student replies.. 'I only have my faith.'
'Yes, faith,' the professor repeats. 'And that is the problem science has with God. There is no evidence, only faith.'
The student stands quietly for a moment, before asking a question of His own. 'Professor, is there such thing as heat?'
'Yes.' 
'And is there such a thing as cold?'
'Yes, son, there's cold too.'
'No sir, there isn't.'
The professor turns to face the student, obviously interested. The room suddenly becomes very quiet. The student begins to explain. 'You can have lots of heat, even more heat, super-heat, mega-heat, unlimited heat, white heat, a little heat or no heat, but we don't have anything called 'cold'. We can hit down to 458 degrees below zero, which is no heat, but we can't go any further after that. There is no such thing as cold; otherwise we would be able to go colder than the lowest -458 degrees. Every body or object is susceptible to study when it has or transmits energy, and heat is what makes a body or matter have or transmit energy. Absolute zero (-458 F) is the total absence of heat. You see, sir, cold is only a word we use to describe the absence of heat. We cannot measure cold. Heat we can measure in thermal units because heat is energy. Cold is not the opposite of heat, sir, just the absence of it.'
Silence across the room. A pen drops somewhere in the classroom, sounding like a hammer.

'What about darkness, professor. Is there such a thing as darkness?'
'Yes,' the professor replies without hesitation.. 'What is night if it isn't darkness?'
'You're wrong again, sir. Darkness is not something; it is the absence of something. You can have low light, normal light, bright light, flashing light, but if you have no light constantly you have nothing and it's called darkness, isn't it? That's the meaning we use to define the word. In reality, darkness isn't. If it were, you would be able to make darkness darker, wouldn't you?'
The professor begins to smile at the student in front of him. This will be a good semester. 'So what point are you making, young man?'
'Yes, professor. My point is, your philosophical premise is flawed to start with, and so your conclusion must also be flawed.'
The professor's face cannot hide his surprise this time. 'Flawed? Can you explain how?'
'You are working on the premise of duality,' the student explains... 'You argue that there is life and then there's death; a good God and a bad God. You are viewing the concept of God as something finite, something we can measure. Sir, science can't even explain a thought.' 'It uses electricity and magnetism, but has never seen, much less fully understood either one. To view death as the opposite of life is to be ignorant of the fact that death cannot exist as a substantive thing. Death is not the opposite of life, just the absence of it.' 'Now tell me, professor.. Do you teach your students that they evolved from a monkey?'
'If you are referring to the natural evolutionary process, young man, yes, of course I do.'
'Have you ever observed evolution with your own eyes, sir?'
The professor begins to shake his head, still smiling, as he realizes where the argument is going. A very good semester, indeed.
'Since no one has ever observed the process of evolution at work and cannot even prove that this process is an on-going endeavor, are you not teaching your opinion, sir? Are you now not a scientist, but a preacher?'
The class is in uproar. The student remains silent until the commotion has subsided. 'To continue the point you were making earlier to the other student, let me give you an example of what I mean..' The student looks around the room. 'Is there anyone in the class who has ever seen the professor's brain?' The class breaks out into laughter. 'Is there anyone here who has ever heard the professor's brain, felt the professor's brain, touched or smelt the professor's brain? No one appears to have done so. So, according to the established rules of empirical, stable, demonstrable protocol, science says that you have no brain, with all due respect, sir.' 'So if science says you have no brain, how can we trust your lectures, sir?'
Now the room is silent. The professor just stares at the student, his face unreadable. Finally, after what seems an eternity, the old man answers. 'I Guess you'll have to take them on faith.'
'Now, you accept that there is faith, and, in fact, faith exists with life,' the student continues. 'Now, sir, is there such a thing as evil?' Now uncertain, the professor responds, 'Of course, there is. We see it Everyday. It is in the daily example of man's inhumanity to man. It is in The multitude of crime and violence everywhere in the world. These manifestations are nothing else but evil.'
To this the student replied, 'Evil does not exist sir, or at least it does not exist unto itself. Evil is simply the absence of God. It is just like darkness and cold, a word that man has created to describe the absence of God. God did not create evil. Evil is the result of what happens when man does not have God's love present in his heart. It's like the cold that comes when there is no heat or the darkness that comes when there is no light.'
The professor sat down.

P.S. The student was Albert Einstein. He wrote a book titled God vs. Science in 1921.

Sunday, February 13, 2011

Menu Plan ~ February 13-19

This week you are going to see morning snack, lunch, afternoon snack and dinner on the weekdays. This menu is for my pre-school age family.

Sunday
Bisquick Quiche, Broccoli, Toast

Monday
Sugar Cookies
Chicken Noodle Soup, Grilled Cheese
Sliced Apples with Peanut Butter
Crock Pot Chicken Cordon Bleu, Frozen Beans

Tuesday
Fruit, Crackers
Mini Pizzas on English Muffin or Pita
Cantaloupe
Ham, Grilled Pineapples, Wild Rice, Roast Carrots & Potatoes

Wednesday
Snack @ Playgroup
Subway Type Sandwiches, Rice Chips
Cheese cubes, Pretzels
Meatloaf, Salad or veggie, Mashed Potatoes

Thursday
Yogurt
Ham & Cheese Tortilla Pinwheels, Macaroni Vegetable Soup (Freezer)
Veggies & Ranch Dip
Leftover Buffet

Friday
Crackers, Fruit
Egg Salad Sandwich, Pretzels
Craisins, Dry Cereal
Pizza, Salad

Saturday
Spaghetti, Garlic Bread, Salad

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Wednesday, February 09, 2011

Book Review ~ Love, Charleston

Love, CharlestonLove, Charleston by Beth Webb Hart
My rating: 2 of 5 stars
SUMMARY (source: Booksneeze)
An inspiring, heart-warming novel set in romantic Charleston, South Carolina.

“Stay and wait.” Anne Brumley heard these words years ago in the bell tower at Saint Michael’s Church in Charleston. She’s certain they were from God and has been waiting for true love ever since. But her sister, Alicia, and their sister, Alicia, have their doubts. Could Anne have misunderstood His calling?

Saint Michael’s new rector may be the answer to Anne’s prayers. Good-old-boy and widower Roy Summerall can’t believe he’s been called to pastor such an historical and a decidedly rich congregation. He can't possibly measure up to their expectations.

It will take a miracle of extraordinary love to provide a happy ending for each of these four Charleston friends.


MY REVIEW
Despite the summary above, I found the novel to be very little about the love of Anne and Father Summerall and it focused more on three cousins (Anne and her sister Alicia and their cousin, Della). Each of these women represent different aspects of marital status and content. One woman searching for love at a later age in life, one married with a child who yearns to grow her family, and the other married and growing her family but having a difficult time in the process. It seems the grass is greener on the other side for these cousins yet they stand strong by each others side despite the heartache it may personally cause them.

Observing each woman's journey touched me personally on a few different levels. I could relate to the post-partem depression, the discontentment in a relationship only to find it is actually exactly what I want. The story was a bit slow, however, and with chapters from the perspective of four characters didn't allow the author to get deep enough into each character's story. Overall, this was a light-hearted novel. I would suggest it was "okay" and give it 2 stars out of 5.

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Tuesday, February 08, 2011

Homemade Taco Seasoning

I have been meaning to make my own taco seasoning for a while. The timing was fabulous when I received this post from A Pretty Life In The Suburbs with a recipe. I tried it the other night for our Taco Casserole and it turned out amazing. I made extra to keep for future dishes!

Homemade Taco Seasoning
1 tbsp chili powder
1 tsp cumin
1 tsp paprika
1 tsp oregano
1 tsp sugar
1 tsp garlic powder
1 tsp onion powder
1/2 tsp salt

This is enough seasoning for about 1-2 lbs of ground beef.

Friday, February 04, 2011

My "Other" Husband

Last night I had a dream. I've been considering it all day. Dreams like that are neat. I dreamed I was not with my husband, Scott (the dream didn't tell me if I was widowed or what the case was but I had been married to him at one point). I was married to a millionaire sports player. This man took care of my two children as though they were his own. We shared a personal trainer and worked out together. We enjoyed friendships with other sports players and their beautiful wives. My health was never better as I was supported and encouraged to work on that aspect of my life. I found I loved running (which I never really have been interested in despite a few attempts). I didn't have to work but enjoyed volunteering for organizations that I believed in. Then the other shoe dropped ... the new husband had a fling with someone else (not sure what all it entailed). I was really conflicted because I really loved this man and he provided such a wonderful lifestyle and friendship and helped me personally develop in ways I have never pushed myself to succeed in. Was the fling enough to throw it away?  This really caused me to pause and question what is important in my reality.

Scott and I are not millionaires but we are financially stable. It makes us more comfortable for me to work and, honestly, if I didn't I think I would be bored out of my mind. I also love having children in my home. It makes me feel whole and with purpose. I believe my children have experienced a better childhood because of it. I get up and dressed in the morning and we play and socialise with our group and other friends in the community. Ava is in kindergarten and so far hasn't been sick (I believe this is from her exposure to different germs and such as an infant, toddler and preschooler). Her transition to kindergarten was seamless (for which I am grateful). Back to the relationship part, of course there are areas as a couple we need to focus on (what couple doesn't) but overall it's a strong partnership and we respect and love each other. It would be great if we had millions but would it change our lifestyle? I doubt it. We are living pretty well. A bigger house might be nice but then that would be more to clean and declutter and organize and decorate and all the rest that goes with it. I think that the most interesting apsect of the "dream" relationship was sharing a personal trainer and learning from the professional sports player's workout routines and discipline as well as spending quality time as a couple and with a shared interest. I don't think you need to be a millionaire sports player's wife to achieve that.

Have you had a dream that made you pause and consider your reality? I'd love to read about it if you have.
Okay, the dream wasn't EXACTLY like this cartoon but after a dream (or reading a book) this is pretty much what my husband has to deal with. Tee hee! (Love you, Scott!)

Thursday, February 03, 2011

30 Day Love Challenge

The gals at SITS have created a wonderful way to celebrate the entire month of February with their 30-Day Love Challenge (although aren't there only 28 days in February??). Anyway, if you want to join me, they are breaking out the month by weeks and these weeks will have themes.

Week 1: February 7 – 11

We will concentrate on ourselves. Oprah has spent years encouraging women to take time for themselves and darn it, it’s about time we did. If pampering yourself just a little each day will bring you to a place that will allow you to work on other relationships with a clear mind, then it’s definitely something we should be doing!

Week 2: February 14 – 18
We will focus on our relationship with our significant other. What can we do to be a better partner, girlfriend or wife? How do we get back to the girl your special someone fell in love with? It’s easy to become complacent in a relationship and expect your significant other to fill in. That’s why we’ll be making mindful decisions each day to show our partners we appreciate them with even the smallest of thoughtful gestures.

Week 3: February 21 – 25
Our attention will be on our kids…whether that be your furry friends or your own little human monkeys, we will spend the week thinking about things we can do to be better caretakers to them. Maybe that means making a point to get outside for fresh air together or taking the time to cuddle on the couch for a movie. Whatever it is, we’ll inspire each other with ideas on how we can help our loved ones feel more special than they already are.

Week 4: February 28 – March 4
This will be our wrap-up week when we think about our friends, old and new. Friends can hold such a special place in our lives, but are usually the first to be overlooked due to the demands at home. What if you made an effort each day to let a friend know you’re thinking of her (or him)? During this week, we’re going to work on just that. We believe strong friendships make us happier people, and that when we’re happy, we’re better at all of the roles in our lives.

I hope you'll join me and the SITS gals on this fun challenge!