Tuesday, August 31, 2010

The School Bus

Since this past February we have been talking about Ava going to junior kindergarten. There has been a great debate as to whether we send her to the Catholic School or the Public School. There are pros and cons to both. Alas, we made our decision and she starts on September 7th for her first hour, then the next week it's one full day with half her class and the Friday September 17th she starts full time.The school where she will attend offers alternate full-day kindergarten. Thankfully both of my children are born at the beginning of the year so they will be okay for a full-day. I wonder how those December babies are going to manage?

We went on a "trial" bus ride last Sunday and got her really hyped up about it. I still hadn't heard about the bus stop but (call me crazy here, folks) I figured that the stop would be near our home. Is this an unrealistic assumption? The qualifiers to recieve a bus for a junior or senior kindergarten student are that they live more than 0.8km from the school. We live 1.0km from said school. And yet, her bus stop is 396 meters from the house. Why don't I just walk her to the school?? The best part is (insert sarcasm here) the kids who live at the bus stop are too close to qualify for the bus. I understand budget cuts but come on! Use your senses, bus people. Don't you have children yourself with younger siblings? The only saving point of this that I can see is that I will bundle up my kids (and day care kids) in the winter or rain and go to the bus stop and hop out with Ava while they stay warm and dry. I will then be able to continue to our regularly scheduled morning activities. I must shake my head over the whole thinking and the incredible red tape beaurocracy.

Let's not even stop to consider that when Travis starts school, Ava will no longer qualify herself for the school bus and so I will have to drive one and take the other to the bus stop - or just take them both myself. But I have two years before that horror...

Saturday, August 28, 2010

Happy 6th Wedding Anniversary to Us!

Today is hubby and my 6th wedding anniversary. Hubby and my ... is that correct grammar? Anyway ... I thought it would be nice to spend time as a family. This morning, all four of us went to Old Navy and Wal-Mart to get little Miss Ava some back-to-school pants and a lunch bag. We ended up with 2 dresses, 3 pairs of pants, 2 tee shirts, 2 long sleeve tees, knee socks (because she just HAS to wear those with her jumpers ... the look is way too cute) and a new knapsack plus a matching lunch bag that snaps attaches to the outside of her knapsack. It's too adorable. She is so excited about school and I have to admit, it was a lot of fun to go shopping with her while she was bursting with pleasure.

We also took the kids to McDonald's for lunch. I was very good and only had three french fries with a wee bit of ketchup. I waited until we got home to eat my Jenny Craig. I am determined to have lost 30 lbs total by my cousin's wedding in November. I can do it. I will do it.

Then, because I am a sucker for more family time we took the children swimming. The water was quite chilly (it was an outdoor pool and not heated). Once we were in it was a good time. The kids only lasted an hour; Travis (2.5 years old) took 30 minutes of that hour to get into the water and was shivering for most of the time. At least we didn't have to pay for him to get in.

The children don't normally have naps but they are both passed out on the couch and I'm debating waking them after 45 minutes of sleep or let them have a full nap and suffer with a late-night of cuddling. Hmm ... it is nice to have some quiet time and I could work on the quilt ....

Friday, August 27, 2010

Accuquilt Giveaways!

I am new to quilting. If I haven't told you already, I am almost done the top sewing my first quilt for my son, Travis. I've been held up due to running out of thread and my walking foot broke so I needed to replace it. That done, I'm hoping ot finish it up this weekend? AND I have the material for my second quilt purchased and ready to cut.

Now that I'm starting the cutting for my second quilt, I'm a little anxious about the measurments being off. So I was really excited to discover the Accuquilt. And that there are a few giveaways for one in bloggy-land! I am so there ... join me in entering, won't you? Good luck to each of us.

Sew Many Ways

Freckled Whimsy

A La Mode Fabric

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

What Do You Do To Make Yourself Fall Asleep

I absolutely must read before bed. Otherwise my brain keeps on thinking and no matter how tired I am it just keeps going and going and going. Reading slows me down; my breathing, my thoughts, my actions. I get ready for bed by brushing my teeth and putting on comfy pajamas and then I prop myself up against pillows and slip between my bedsheets. It is so soothing. I put on a good lamp or two (or some nights when I am tired, three) and read away. I like to get a few hours in before turning off the airport strip of lights and roll over to sleep. I'm starting to yawn just thinking about this routine!

What do you do to make yourself fall asleep??

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Good Food Choices

I hope that the following stories are examples of (my) good parenting. Otherwise ... I'm not sure what's wrong with my kids! Ha ha.

Yesterday the kids were playing with their friends. The little boy had the new Batman toy from McDonalds. I told my kids I'd see if we could buy the toy. We go through the drive-thru and, sure enough I can purchase just the toy without food. I was willing to buy happy meals for them if I had to but would rather not as I had lots of homemade food at home. After we went through the drive-thru they did not once ask for fries or any other food but were happy to accept their Batmans (one each, of course). I was pretty proud.

We take swimming lessons and afterwards we visit the park and have a snack. I brought some cake for them and an apple for me. They all wanted the apple and I had to insist they eat the cake because I am on Jenny Craig and it's my special snack. The world tilted in that moment for sure.

Friday, August 20, 2010

Happy Birthday To Me!

As the years roll by birthdays have a tendency to blur together and some of the excitement gets deflated. For me that is the case at least. Sharing a birthday with a little child, however, can make it fresh and exciting again.

Take my birthday, for instance. It's today. Last night after the kids went to bed I was reading. Around 10PM I hear my daughter Ava (4 years old) get up. In her half-asleep state she told me, "We coloured cards for your birthday! Can we give them to you  now?".
Me ~ "My birthday tomorrow so let's open them in the morning."
Ava ~ "Okay"

Doesn't 5:00AM roll around and I hear a little girlie up and ready for the day. This is early even for her. Daddy went to see if he could get her back to sleep but apparently it was a no go because 15 minutes later she came bounding into my bed with the biggest hugs and "Happy birthday, Mommy! Can we give you your cards now?".

When Daddy went to leave for work at 6:30AM she was crestfallen. "But Daddy, you have to stay home for our dance party and to bake a cake!". I have to admit, despite the early morning her enthusiasm was and is contageous and I'm actually a little excited that it's my birthday today. This is definitely one of my favourite years to celebrate my birth.

Do you have a special birthday story? I'd love to hear it.

Thursday, August 19, 2010

Do You Speed or Does It Speed Past You?

You know that feeling when life is speeding past you and you can barely grab on to it's mane? It's doing that for me these days.

This Saturday there is a court garage sale. I could get stuff ready to pass on ... but with what time to organize and de-crap-ify (my own word)?

I am totally drooling over the new Rubbermaid Neat system. Wow! I love the part in the commercial when the lady opens her cupboard and the "old" containers get her.



I'm slightly stressed because in my home daycare one of my kids is leaving the first week of September so I'm anxious about not having someone lined up right away. I don't want to jump at the first kid that says they want to join us but at the same time the pickings are slim. Finances are always good for a bout of hives.

With respect to menu planning, I am still doing Jenny Craig so it's getting hard to be committed to cooking for the family. My deep freezer is getting filled with food as are the cupboards. I really need to get on this. I think I'll be making some "shopping at home" menus in the coming weeks. If only the kids would eat some of the delicious menus that I make! (thankfully for the daycare kids who eat what mine won't!).

In good news, I just have the border to top-stitch and thebinding (which I keep wanting to call bias as in bias tape) to attach. Perhaps working on this is causing the house to look like a bomb has hit it!

What is gnawing at you lately?

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Getting Ready For Fall

After the last post, and with your encouragement, my butt is a little more in gear this week. Monday I cleaned all the bathrooms, showers included. Tuesday I mopped floors and quilted one-half of the top stitch for Travis's quilt (my first time, a queen sized one and I double sided-the design to boot!). It's going rather well and I have to put some love out to my new walking foot. Who knew?! I just have to sit there and the machine does everything for me! I also went to the gym and read the first chapter of Dear John by Nicholas Sparks. Oh! And I purchased material for a new queen sized quilt that will be a wedding gift. Additionally I played with the kiddies all day and took 5 toddlers to swim lessons. No wonder I fell into bed last night!

I must say, since losing weight (8.4 lbs as of last night's Jenny Craig weigh-in), I've generally had much more energy and I am feeling lighter. Literally.

Now it would be great to organize the front hall closet and then wade my way through my daughter's closet to sort and purge all the clothes she has grown out of. Then I need to take inventory to get clothes and prepare my baby ready for school (sob!).

What are you doing to get ready for the fall?

Sunday, August 15, 2010

My Hazy Days of Summer

I love the summer. It's so easy to hop in the car and head out for the weekend. I regularly visit my parents who are 1.5 hours drive away. They have a pool and it's great for getting the kids tuckered out and for me to get some exercise while playing with them. It's a sacrifice on my part, I know, but I'm willing to do it for the children.

I realise that I have not been posting as regularly as I'd like. I find that I'm spending a lot of time catching up on 600+ blog posts from fantastically creative blogs I follow. From reading to quilting, crocheting or knitting or just general mom-stuff, to menu planning or organizing my house my "to do" project list is growing like crazy. You should see all my "favourites" I have saved in my efforts to remember all these great ideas. For when I have the time. One of these days.

I just want to ask these crafty, organized bloggers who have children. How do you get it all done? I'm EXHAUSTED by 8PM and can hardly imagine starting to work on my quilt or other sewing project at that time. It's all I can do to get ready for bed and read for an hour or so (hence the numerous recent book reviews).

In brighter news. I am entering my 9th week with Jenny Craig. As of my last weigh-in I was down a total of 7.6 lbs. That includes a 2-week vacation (where I lost a few pounds) and a weight gain one week due to migrains and water retention due to the medications I was taking. Overall I feel lighter and definitely more attractive.

Friday, August 13, 2010

Kids Say The Darndest Things ~ Especially Your Own

Some kid things that are going on and being said around here. Yep, making me so proud (most of the time).

  1. I'm putting Ava to bed one night and she's misbehaving. I talk really loudly at her to get her attention. She stops and looks at me "I'm not going to talk to you if you yell at me like that".
  2. I am talking with someone and I hear Ava say to another friend, "I have to wait until my Mommy is talking before I can interrupt her". Finally, it's catching on!
  3. We are (slowly) potty training Travis. "Travis, don't touch your penis". "No, I need to touch it to make it bigger".
  4. Ava was playing on her pretend phone when I over hear her urgently saying "Papa Paul, you better come get me quick!". I have no idea what that conversation was about.
The gems they come up with. What have your little ones said lately that have you smirking?

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

You Can Be Everything God Wants You To Be ~ Book Review

YOU CAN BE EVERYTHING GOD WANTS YOU TO BEYOU CAN BE EVERYTHING GOD WANTS YOU TO BE by Max Lucado
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

The best quote for me was "you cannot be anything you want to be. But you can be everything God wants you to be" (page 39).

The allusions Lucado uses are very easy to follow and make his message easy to understand.

The book itself is smaller than an ordinary novel but I am enjoying how it fits into my hands, has thick pages to hold and even the pale blue ink marks along the edges of each page make it feel someone took the time to make it fancy just for me (similar to my scrapbooking sister-in-law who often creates personalised books or picture pages for the family).

This is a quick read with reminders of how to live as your authentic self in the way God intends.

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Sunday, August 08, 2010

Guide to Machine Quilting

Guide to Machine QuiltingGuide to Machine Quilting by Diane Gaudynski
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This is a fantastic reference. This first-time quilter really appreciated the tips and is currently implementing them on my first quilt! So far so good.

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Saturday, August 07, 2010

Killer Pizza

Killer PizzaKiller Pizza by Greg Taylor
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

SUMMARY (source)
Toby McGill lands the perfect summer job at a place called Killer Pizza, there's more to cooking than just pies. Toby and his friends are shocked when they find out the shop is a front for an underground monster-hunting organization.
MY THOUGHTS
This book was raved about on anothers blog (cannot recall which blog). I ordered it from the library to check out. It was a fun read even though it was geared at the 14-year old market.

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Wednesday, August 04, 2010

Queen of Babble Gets Hitched

Queen of Babble Gets Hitched (Queen of Babble, #3)Queen of Babble Gets Hitched by Meg Cabot

My rating: 3 of 5 stars

SUMMARY (source: Meg Cabot)
Big mouth. Big heart. Big wedding. Big problems.
It's the wedding of the century!
Things are looking up at last for Lizzie Nichols. She has a career she loves in the field of her choice (wedding gown restoration), and the love of her life, Jean-Luc, has finally proposed. Life's become a dizzying whirl of wedding gown fittings-although, oddly, not necessarily her own--as Lizzie prepares (sort of) for her dream wedding at her fiancé's chateau in the south of France.
But the dream soon becomes a nightmare as the best man--with whom Lizzie might once accidentally have slept…no, really, just slept--announces his total lack of support for the couple, a sentiment the maid of honor happens to second; Lizzie's Midwestern family can't understand why she doesn't want to have her wedding in the family backyard; her future, oh-so-proper French in-laws seem to be slowly trying to lure the groom away from medical school and back into investment banking-in France; and Lizzie finds herself wondering if her Prince Charming really is as charming as she once believed.
 Is Lizzie really ready to embrace her new role as Bride? Or is she destined to fall into another man's arms…and into the trap of becoming a Bad Girl instead? 
One thing's for sure: this is a wedding no one is likely to forget-if it ever even happens at all.

MY THOUGHTS:
This was a clever book, however after reading this last book of the 3-book series, I was disappointed by the anti-climactic ending. Unless there is a 4th book in the series?

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Sunday, August 01, 2010

A Reliable Wife ~ Book Review

A Reliable WifeA Reliable Wife by Robert Goolrick

My rating: 1 of 5 stars


SUMMARY (source: Busy Moms Who Love To Read)
Rural Wisconsin, 1909. In the bitter cold, Ralph Truitt, a successful businessman, stands alone on a train platform waiting for the woman who answered his newspaper advertisement for "a reliable wife." But when Catherine Land steps off the train from Chicago, she's not the "simple, honest woman" that Ralph is expecting. She is both complex and devious, haunted by a terrible past and motivated by greed. Her plan is simple: she will win this man's devotion, and then, ever so slowly, she will poison him and leave Wisconsin a wealthy widow. What she has not counted on, though, is that Truitt — a passionate man with his own dark secrets —has plans of his own for his new wife. Isolated on a remote estate and imprisoned by relentless snow, the story of Ralph and Catherine unfolds in unimaginable ways.

MY THOUGHTS
My overall reaction was "what a strange story". As part of the Busy Moms Who Love To Read monthly book club, I read this novel. The story is set in the early 1900s and deals with a variety of classes from the very poor to the wealthy.

The characters seem to be all victims of their circumstances and none really took responsibility for their decisions and situations.

Ralph Truitt had no sense of responsibility as a youth, had too much responsibility as a widow and to much forgiveness as an older man.

Antonio followed in Ralph's youthful ways but never got an opportunity to develop past that stage.

Catherine didn't really have an identity as she morphed to be who or what was required to survive. There were also a lot of secrets - too many that came about choppily through the novel. Yes, they made the characters more accessible but they weren't enough to grab this readers interest or attention.

Book Club discussion questions:
1.  On a scale of 1 (lamer than lame) and 5(super fantastic) rate the following:
         1. Style of Writing - 3.5 out of 5
         2. Development of Characters -  3.5 out of 5
         3. Flow of storyline - 3 out of 5
         4. Over all book - 2 out of 5

2. This book is largely about forgiveness, do you think the actions of Truitt are forgivable? 
Forgivable from whom? I could definitely see who Antonio would harbour resentment and contempt for a father who beat him as a child. Truitt himself, realizing his actions were wrong, should be allowed to repent and then forgive himself (as he attempted to do by asking Antonio to come back). Catherine didn't really have a place to forgive as it wasn't her who was directly affected by the act.

3. What was your most favorite part?
I thought it was intriguing to discover that Antonio and Catherine were in cahoots together.

4. What was your least favorite part?
I didn't like the tone of the novel. It's hard to put my finger on but the fact that the whoring and drug-taking of the poor in the city contrasted to the wealth and enormous house that wasn't being inhabited because of bad memories in the country were unsettling to me. It seemed wasteful and unmindful, perhaps selfishness of the wealthy and ignorance to the needs of those of less fortune.

5. What did you "not see coming"?
That Antonio and Truitt were able to make some strides in their relationship.

6. What are your thoughts on the concept of the winter driving people insane? 
I could definitely appreciate that. Isolation does strange things to people.

7. What is your take on Mrs. Larsen?
I wished some of her story were shared, both past and with the husband when he cut off his own hand. It was hard to understand her history with Truitt as it was only alluded to but it would have been interesting.

8. Goolrick has another book in print - The End of the World as We Know it, do you think you would read it?
No. I wasn't that impressed with this book.

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