A bit of history on our night-time ordeals... the kid is 4 years old and still crawls into bed with us before midnight. We only have a queen sized bed and it gets small fast - especially as she is getting bigger and even more of a bed hog than when she was little! Ava's sleep (or lack of) has been an ongoing issue since she was a baby. When she was 2 years old I
wrote a post about deciding to give in and that it was nice snuggle time to get her to sleep. She was in her own bed all night.A few months later I
wrote here about my hopes that by kindergarten she would be more independent. She starts this September.
So, keeping with this timing goal my husband and I both decided that we need to at least get her out of our bed and into her own - whether one of us joins her throughout the night is another story but we will go to her and get her out of the habit of getting into bed with us. Do you
know how creepy it is to think you are snuggling with your husband and then realise it's your kid's foot?! We don't even feel her get in the bed ... she's that good.
Okay, so back to how we are going to achieve our goal to get her out. We agreed to her having a sticker chart where she has to do three things each night that include:
- Fall asleep in her bed (we're going to work up to laying there 5 minutes on her own before she falls asleep because she uses us as a prop)
- Stay in her bed all night
- Wake up happy
My husband felt that she's the kind of kid that would need immediate recognition to look forward to when she woke up to make it stick so, when she gets all three stickers she gets to go with Daddy to the Dollar Store and choose a prize.
How did the first night go? We implemented it on Tuesday night. We talked about each of the three steps and got her buy-in and her excitement. She did it like a dream. She got to put 15 stickers on her chart - I didn't care because she was so darned pleased with herself. We couldn't go that night for the prize so we're planning it later in the week. On Wednesday night when I was trying to get her to fall asleep in her bed instead of the couch I used the "
if you don't go in your bed you won't get all 3 stickers. That means no prize". Do you know what the smart-ass said to me? "
That's okay, I'm getting a prize because I got all my stickers last night." How do you respond to that?! Do you see what I'm up against? Is it possible to start reproducing a less intelligent next generation? It's downright embarrassing sitting there opening and closing my mouth like a goldfish in response.
A bit of history on our night-time ordeals... the kid is 4 years old and still crawls into bed with us before midnight. We only have a queen sized bed and it gets small fast - especially as she is getting bigger and even more of a bed hog than when she was little! Ava's sleep (or lack of) has been an ongoing issue since she was a baby. When she was 2 years old I wrote a post about deciding to give in and that it was nice snuggle time to get her to sleep. She was in her own bed all night.A few months later I wrote here about my hopes that by kindergarten she would be more independent. She starts this September.
I'm reading "Watermelon" by Marian Keyes as part of the Busy Moms Who Love To Read's March book selection. This is the first novel I have read with this group but so far it isn't too bad. I'm not too impressed that the protagonist got left by her husband the day she gave birth but I'm getting through the novel and keeping an open mind. Specific questions for us to consider (and my answers):
As I think about someone judging mommy bloggers for creative freedom, it really bothers me. Who is this reporter? She works and writes for a living - heaven help her if she has or plans on having children and write at the same time ... the gods will be damning her to hell if that is the case (or at least mommy bloggers will be!).
